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Medical care is not one-size-fits-all. A medical oncologist explains how to choose the best treatment for you.聽

Being diagnosed with cancer can be overwhelming 鈥� and often, well-meaning friends or family members who鈥檝e faced similar diagnoses want to share advice about what treatments to pursue or avoid. But what happens when their recommendations differ from your doctor鈥檚? Who should you listen to? 

鈥淚t鈥檚 a very common situation for patients to receive advice from their family members and then struggle to balance that with what their doctor has recommended,鈥� says Umair U. Ghani, MD, a medical oncologist who treats patients in at 喵咪社区 鈥� Irvine and 喵咪社区 鈥� Newport Beach, both part of the 喵咪社区 Norris Comprehensive Cancer Center and 喵咪社区. 鈥淚n these moments, it鈥檚 our role as physicians to help patients navigate those conversations, providing education and guidance toward a treatment plan that is personalized to their needs.鈥澛犅�

Knowing the source of your information is essential, Dr. Ghani emphasizes. 鈥淎s your doctor, I rely on evidence-based medicine to make recommendations,鈥� he says. 鈥淲e use clinical trial data, research findings and years of experience to design a care plan tailored specifically to your condition.鈥� 

By contrast, advice from family or friends 鈥� though often shared with love 鈥� may not be appropriate for your particular diagnosis, stage or medical history, he notes. Also, when it comes to receiving advice from a family member or friend, you might not know where they are getting their advice from or whether their source of information is a reputable medical source. 

鈥淭hat鈥檚 not to say you should automatically discredit all medical advice from family members,鈥� Dr. Ghani says. Sometimes family members do have valuable insights or observations to share that can be helpful to you and worth discussing.  

鈥淚f you鈥檙e receiving conflicting opinions, bring them to your doctor so they can help you sort through and prioritize what makes the most sense for your health,鈥� Dr. Ghani advises. In some cases, your doctor can organize a family meeting to address everyone鈥檚 questions together. 鈥淭his can help ensure everyone is on the same page and that decisions are made collaboratively,鈥� he says. 

Sorting through multiple opinions can be stressful, but remember: your doctor is your partner in care. They are there to help you make informed choices grounded in research and aligned with your goals. 

鈥淭he most important thing you can do is be open with your doctor about the other advice you鈥檙e hearing,鈥� Dr. Ghani says. 鈥淭hat transparency allows us to work together to determine the safest and most effective plan for your health.鈥� 

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